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2020.09.21 20:43 bigmac912 I (M26) am feeling guilty about my breakup with my ex (F25), and I'm losing sleep because of the guilt and have an exam coming up.

EXTREMELY LONG POST! THE ONLY REASON I HAVE MADE IT THIS LONG IS BECAUSE I WANTED TO PROVIDE AS MUCH DETAIL AS POSSIBLE, SO THAT YOU CAN MAKE A BETTER JUDGEMENT. I AM LOSING SLEEP OVER THIS AND I HAVE THE BIGGEST EXAM OF MY LIFE IN 10 DAYS!!!!
I (M25) met a girl(F24) through an online class. Started talking to her. Asked her out and she said yes. She was at a different city, living with her parents. I asked her to come to the city I was at, as it had better options for her to study. She agreed. But just as she was about to leave, the guy with whom she was in an FWB started to threaten her to not leave, and he would go home to her parents and tell them about the FWB stuff (she hails from a very conservative household).
When I heard all this, I started freaking out. This was the first girl I had asked out. I didn't know what to do. She was in a mess. I thought if I leave her now, it'll be hard for her. So I decided to stay. After all the mess at home, she somehow convinced her folks to let her come to my city. After meeting her, we started going out, studying together and spending time together.
From the start, she used to get angry for little things. We were having coffee at close by place, and a friend of mine, who studies with both us came by and started chatting. As I was talking to him for about 5 mins, she got angry and just left. I didn't think much about it, but when I later went back to the library, where both of us study, she just wouldn't talk to me. I had to apologise to her many times for this. I didn't like this. I'm a guy who apologizes one time, sincerely. But this was just getting on my nerve. But I just ignored this.
We have had fights over many petty reasons, but each time I had to apologise to her over and over, it I had to buy her food, as a way to say sorry. Eventually it got to a point where we would keep score of the mistakes the other committed and used to use that in our arguments.
After dating her for a few months, she told me that the FWB guy is again threatening her. I asked her, hasn't he already gone to your house and told your parents everything? Then she confessed to me that she had a threesome with this guy and his buddy (this was really disturbing to me. I couldn't sleep at night because of this.). I could see that she was anxious, so I calmed her and tried to cheer her up. Then I opened her Facebook, and there was another guy in her search history. When I asked her about it, she said she was in a really bad state of mind and had an ONS with him. Turns out, this guy had an STD, and it passed on to me. Thankfully, it wasn't something serious and was easily curable. I forgave her for this and took her to see the doctor I had seen and got her cured as well.
As time passed, we became great friends. She understood my humour. But there were still things I didn't like about her, like the fact that she hid her past relationships from me (her reason being, she didn't want to lose me), or that she wasn't as ambitious as me. She said, the FWB guy has nudes and videos of her, and he's threatening to leak them. She asked me if could look on porn sites if he has. I did, and man did that traumatise me. It was a horrific experience. Everytime I found a video which resembled a girl like her, my heart rate would just shoot. I would proceed to watch it and upon reassurance that it wasn't her, I would calm down. And I had to do this video after video.
So what this created in me is that, everytime she texted me something like 'Hey.', without saying anything, I would start to freak out that she's gonna give me some bad news (like this FWB guy has leaked everything). It was some sort of anxious feeling.
Eventually, I thought of ending things with her. I wanted to end things with her in Oct-Nov, last year. But everytime I felt like, I either didn't find the courage, or I thought let me give it a chance. I was at crossroads.
Eventually I met another girl(F23), in January. We became friends. She started to drop hints. I knew she liked me. I wanted to give this a shot. But I didn't want to cheat on GF1. So I knew I HAD to end it, if I wanted to be with this new girl.
I didn't know how to do it. So I lied to her. I told her that my parents found out about this, and they told me to leave all this and focus on studying. And I told her all this over text.
But later, GF2 told me that I should meet her and talk to her. So I met her at a common friends place and explained things. Here too I told her the reason as my parents.
After meeting her that day, she texted me and asked me if there was any chance that we could get back together in the future. I didn't want to leave her hanging, so I told no. After that she cried.
Then COVID happened. A nation wide lockdown was imposed. During the lockdown I asked GF1 for a couple of days in the beginning how she's doing and all. After that I didn't text her for 3 months. I thought it would be better, for both of us to get over each other, but mainly her. But she has gotten angry for this.
After that she texted me and was started lashing out at me, that how can I not even bother to check on her and see how she's doing. TBH, I thought it would be good for her if she didn't talk to me. I said I'm sorry. Then one night she called me and screwed me, that I've ruined her life and all. I didn't say anything except in sorry. Plus GF2 didn't like me talking to her often. So GF2 told me, she hasn't gotten any closure and I have to write to her explaining why things didn't work out. ( GF2 asked me to block GF1 everywhere, and told me if she wants to contact me, let her email me. I thought it was sound advice, so I did. )
So I did. Wrote her an email. No reply. But GF1's friend texted me. GF1 had shown the email to her friend. She texted me and started screwing me, that I had just pretended to be a nice guy and that I was the worst thing to ever happen to her and all. I listened to everything and said ok, ask GF 1 to study well and all. After that I blocked this girl.
Then GF1 had called me after a week or so, and I blocked her by then. There were 4 calls from her. I told this to GF2. GF2 told me to speak with GF1 and see what's happened. But when I tried to call her, she had blocked me. She has blocked me on social media and phone. I wrote an email to her, saying that if she wants to talk, she can call me.
WHAT I'M FEELING NOW IS, that I have somehow cheated her. I have done some injustice to her. Our exam is in 10 days. I feel that, if she doesn't perform well in that, I'm the one responsible. I feel like, if I didn't break up with her, maybe she would have had the peace of mind to study. But now she wouldn't have studied because of the trauma that I caused. Am I correct? Or am I wrong? Did I do something bad?
TL;DR - Had a bad break up in January. Didn't tell her the truth about why I'm breaking up, initially. We have our exam in about 10 days. I'm feeling that, if she doesn't perform well, it's my fault, as I broke up with her and she wasn't able to study because of that.
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2020.09.20 10:09 SkUchiha My Cute love story

I wanted to share my cute little story hope you guys enjoy it.
I was in 11th std going to a coaching for college admission exams. N I recently broke up with someone. So I wasn't looking for any relationship. But it was our first session n I was in a big hall sitting with my friends and in all the crowd I saw one girl who was kinda late n I remember that feeling when I saw her. It was just amazing but didn't realize it back then how I just fell in love with her at first site. Then we had our classes daily I used to see her. Just watching her smile made me really happy. I used to see her as she went home n then only I would leave. I used to keep track of the dress she wears, every time she asked doubt or gave answer in class. Then a year n half passed by and we were in ending of 12th and one day I wanted some documents. So I posted if someone had them tell me. Then two people replied I have them which ones do you want?... N one of the two was her, n that's how our first conversation started.
So we used to talk like once or twice a month. It made me happy every I talked with her. I realised that she's not only pretty but smart and cool. And the best thing was our personalities matched(I found out later that we both are INFJ). N then I got into college and she decided to take a drop so she can appear again for the exams. So she was many times studying n we used to chat same like 2 or 3 time a month. Then after almost one year of chatting we talked on call for the first time. It was very amazing experience. And these every little things made me so happy just getting to chat with her or listening her voice on call. I planned of confessing once her exams are over in may.
Then again some months passed by and lockdown started because of Covid and I was totally free just passing time at my home. I missed her more. We started chatting more in lockdown. And one day I don't know how but I had a sudden urge n confessed to her without any thinking. It was at around 11 pm at night and I knew that she usually sleeps late at night. So I waited and waited all night . I was so nervous coz I confessed at a bad time. She was totally studying and ger exams are getting closer and I just did confessed her. I couldn't sleep at night it was 3.30am still no reply. Than I forcefully slept. Then again I woke up at 7 am and still no reply. I just waited and waited and then at 9.30am I texted her why aren't you replying? She texted wait idiot I'm still thinking. Then we talked for some time and oh my god I will never forget that feeling in my heart when she said I love you too. I can't express how I felt. Was literally high for next 15 days. Last three years this was the moment I always dreamed and it finally came true. It felt like I am in heaven. I was never so much happy.
And this month 5 months of relationship are completed. And we are in so much love I can't even measure. Because of this corona and her exams postponed coz of it we haven't met yet. But I got to know one thing that as much as I love her she love me even more. I can't wait for our first date.
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2020.09.20 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 21 (2.UWT)

Date Stage From > To Length Type Finish Time
20.sep 21 Mantes-la-Jolie > Paris (Champs-Élysées) 122 km (76 mi) Flat / Reverse km labels Flat 15:45-19:00 CEST
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2020.09.19 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 20 (2.UWT)

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19.sep 20 Lure > La Planche des Belles Filles 36 km (22 mi) ITT / Reverse km labels 13:00-18:00 CEST
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The time cut today will be 25% of the time of the winner. Currently, this means the last rider would be outside the time limit with a finishing time of 54:18
The top 10 in GC start at 16:56. The final rider, Primoz Roglic, starts at 17:14 (CEST)
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2020.09.18 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 19 (2.UWT)

Date Stage From > To Length Type Finish Time
18.sep 19 Bourg-en-Bresse > Champagnole 160 km (99 mi) Flat / Reverse km labels Sloping 13:30-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.17 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 18 (2.UWT)

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17.sep 18 Méribel > La Roche-sur-Foron 168 km (104 mi) Mountain / Reverse km labels Uphill 12:05-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.16 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 17 (2.UWT)

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16.sep 17 Grenoble > Méribel (Col de la Loze) 168 km (104 mi) Mountain, Reverse km labels Mountain 12:15-17:15 CEST
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2020.09.15 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 16 (2.UWT)

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15.sep 16 La Tour-du-Pin > Villard-de-Lans 164 km (102 mi) Mountain / Reverse km labels Summit 13:05-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.15 02:47 Evolwinter Finally Got the Truth After 4.5 Years-LONG

Guess I should start from the beginning. It’ll be long. Sorry. D-day for me was January 2016. We got married in May 2015 after dating 2 years. I was seriously just bored at work and had our phone bill pulled up. No reason to “snoop”. I was adding names to all the numbers on the bill. One came up that wasn’t in my contacts and when I Googled it it was for an escort. Total shock. How could this hour long text exchange between my husband and an escort be on here?? I had my sister text the number and it most definitely was an escort. I wasn’t sure how to approach him...
That night I asked him if he remembered doing something inappropriate for a married man such as texting an escort for an hour. He had no recollection. I guess I gave him an out by suggesting maybe someone hacked his phone. He kind of ran with that but was acting weird. I kept asking questions. He’s a very tech savvy guy. Since he wasn’t being much help I decided to launch my own investigation. I felt like I was going to burst if I didn’t talk about it or research it. I ended up talking to several people including some of his family members. Probably not the best idea but I was desperate for answers. I had read up on escorts and their lingo and how it all worked. He did let me do a text retrieval on his phone. The data was pretty garbled but there was definitely other stuff that seemed escort related...a few I remember are “are you doing in or out?” “I’m here. 312. Ok.” I made an appointment to see a therapist early on because I felt like I was going crazy. I ended up losing 20 pounds and my nerves were shot. Couldn’t sleep or eat. Crying most days.
Over the next several weeks I discovered he had made dating profiles and found a “sexy” picture on KIK. He still tried to act like his phone was hacked. I told him we needed a break. Too many lies. He went to his Dad’s for 5 days. During that time I hit the jackpot...but I didn’t feel like a winner. I had one of his old phones and discovered his Google search history. This was early March 2016 so I was going backwards reading it. Pretty normal until I got to January 2016 and saw where he was searching how to “hide phone activity/text messages” on the night I confronted him. Wow. So I went backwards from there and was able to see when it all started. We got in to a fight in early June 2015 and he left. 1 month after being married. He came back after 1.5 days. (Most of our fights were about his 2 kids from a previous relationship. I have 2 of my own as well. Turns out his son is autistic but wasn’t even diagnosed and put on meds until 2018 at 13 years old. We also fought because I felt very unimportant to him and pointed it out sometimes.) So from his search history a month after getting married it goes something like this...”annulment, blow job toy, where to get a massage, chat rooms, escort reviews” by mid-June even though I thought we’d worked things out. Other things I saw were “hotel locations/directions, can I get an STD from oral?”, etc.
So again, this is early March 2016-about 7ish weeks since the phone bill discovery. We had made plans to have a date night after him being gone for 5 days but I had just discovered the search history that morning. I wasn’t fully prepared but had some screen shots. It was kind of awkward just because I’m thinking who is this man? How do I approach him again with this new info after trying to “move on”? I decided to tell him I found his search history. He tried to deny it still. I said yes, that’s yours. It had other normal searches that I could point out that were definitely his. He finally decided to tell me what happened. Trickle truth I guess they call it. He said he searched for escorts and messaged some but he always chickened out because of the risks. He said he never had any luck with the dating sites. He swore he didn’t cheat on me. I still felt like I didn’t believe him. We tried couples counseling but they didn’t even want to talk about the escort issue. They wanted us to focus on the future. Umm...we need to discuss the past so we can figure out how we even got here!
Looking back he had never really treated me any different. Still affectionate and saying I love you daily. There was never any lack of activity in the bedroom so sex wasn’t an issue. I have all of our texts saved so I pulled those and compared them to his search history dates/times. I saw some nights he was “working late”. I narrowed it down to 4 days that I thought he visited escorts. He let me see his bank activity since we don’t share a bank account. On those 4 days there were ATM withdrawals ranging from $100-$200. Wow.
We decided we loved each other enough to try and move on even though I told him I would NEVER believe him. And that I expected it to NEVER happen again. We went through the whole hysterical bonding phase during most of this. I still felt wired all the time and continued to do research even though I said I wouldn’t. I was depressed and still wasn’t eating/sleeping right. I found out in late May 2016 that I was pregnant. We would argue if I asked questions about “the past” and he threatened to leave a few times while I was pregnant. We pushed through and welcomed a baby girl in January 2017. I tell you what. I needed her as much as she needed me. A true ray of sunshine in my life. We decided to take another big step and buy a house in July 2017. The past would still creep in and haunt me though...
In August 2017 I randomly Googled the escort’s name-the one from the phone bill in January 2016. Why do I torture myself like this? I had contact with her back in 2016 and she oddly gave me her real name. I saw her Facebook and everything. I had said I’d give her money for info. I quickly realized she was most likely on drugs and nothing really came of it because she couldn’t remember sh*t. Anyway when I googled her name her OBITUARY popped up. She had just died of an overdose the week before! Crazy. I ended up sharing it with my husband. My heart was upset for her 3 kids she left behind. Such an awkward feeling. He would always seem surprised if I brought stuff up days, weeks, months, years later. He doesn’t realize that I think about it almost daily. It became a part of our future because he didn’t tell the truth. Never really “set me free” I guess.
Fast forward to present days. (Thanks so much for reading so far!) I’ve tried to bring stuff up less and less...we’ve come to laugh about certain things. Like when we watch tv shows/movies why is there always an escort/prostitute?? We’ve settled in to a fairly normal and predictable routine day to day. Work. Kids. Home life. Recently we added some new stuff in to the mix. I’ll just say a recreational substance. Nothing hard core and safety measures were taken. Research has been done and some people use it for couples therapy. The after glow is real. Didn’t know that at first. Well it’s opened my husband up more than ever. I feel like I’m getting to know him all over again. He decided to tell me the truth after 4.5 years. It’s not pretty. But it could be worse I suppose...
So I guess after getting married and us fighting he was beginning to feel like “property” and feels like once people get married they start treating each other differently. He had not been with many girls before me. He was 34 when we got married. I was 36. I think he’s a very handsome guy. People always had crushes on him but he was shy and had anxiety so things never went very far. He had a small unsuccessful encounter as a teenager and then wasn’t with anyone until he was 23ish. That was the mother of his two kids. If you look at her and him together you would wonder how the heck it even happened. They had bonded over an online game for years before meeting in person. He was different back then and I think she kind of ruled the roost. She even scheduled their sex once a week! After they spilt he was briefly with a girl he met on Plenty of Fish and then had another brief relationship with a girl crush from his childhood. Then we met in April 2013 and have been together ever since. Sex life was always good. He seemed to know what he was doing. Haha. One thing I hated thinking about was that I gave my husband his first successful bj at 32 years old and thinking escorts probably did now, too. On to his reason for the escorts...
I was really surprised that it had less to do with me and was more about how he was feeling about himself. Yes, we fought and that made him “unhappy and annoyed.” HE said in a text to me that it was mostly “feeling myself get older and wasting what time I have left looking semi attractive. Hard to sum it up. Things are better and I guess I learned from it somehow and know it’s a waste and not a fulfilling avenue either.” He said he didn’t come clean because he didn’t want me telling people he really visited escorts. So I feel like he wants to protect his reputation because it’s something he said he’s not proud of and that he doesn’t like to think about. He has said it’s not my fault. I asked if he thought I was stupid. He said no. He said he was stupid. I asked if he felt bad and he said there were many guilt trips but with me being in a bad mood most days it made it easier. He said it was the thrill of the hunt. Finding a girl. I asked many many questions and he answered them all. He said it was a search for validation and wanting to feel wanted. Which makes me so sad for him. He was paying these girls for their attention. They have no idea what a true catch he is-looks, smarts, good heart, funny, adventurous. He said it was more of a rush if they said he was cute before the act. And yes, on to the acts...I’m having a HARD TIME accepting that between 4.5-5 years ago that my husband had contact/visited 12ish women. Much more than I expected. He insists he wore protection each time and was tested 2 times for STDs. So we’ve got 3 successful bjs, 1 successful hj, and 1 topless massage (his first visit). He said the girls never looked like the pictures and most were “ghetto yo girls”. One girl he felt bad for and said he changed his mind but left the money. One girl he thinks was a cop because she was asking too many questions. One girl he was supposed to actually screw didn’t look like he thought and he tried to leave and she told him someone would be waiting for him if he did. So he got robbed of that money. And there were 3 girls that he was unsuccessful with. Nerves I’m sure. He said he went after escorts because there was no emotional attachment. He still wanted to be married to me. He said he could do it and “forget about it”. He said if he met a real woman and not a “hooker” that it would have been over with us. He’s said sorry he hurt me and he really does love me.
So now that we have everything out in the open I feel so many emotions. I’m sad for him, sad for me, angry, hurt. We’ve both said we love each other and want to be the best US going forward. It’ll take more time. I’ve cried. He cried for the second time in 7.5 years of knowing him. I told him it’s a lot to accept even though I was 99% sure he cheated. I told him I’ll have some bad days still. It stops me in my tracks some days...like my husband was with other women. They touched him. They saw him. They talked to him. Ugh. If he had confessed sooner I can’t imagine where we’d be today. We might not have our sweet little girl and he could just be “somebody that I used to know.”
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2020.09.13 23:14 Evolwinter Finally Got the Truth after 4.5 Years-LONG

Guess I should start from the beginning. It’ll be long. Sorry. D-day for me was January 2016. We got married in May 2015 after dating 2 years. I was seriously just bored at work and had our phone bill pulled up. No reason to “snoop”. I was adding names to all the numbers on the bill. One came up that wasn’t in my contacts and when I Googled it it was for an escort. Total shock. How could this hour long text exchange between my husband and an escort be on here?? I had my sister text the number and it most definitely was an escort. I wasn’t sure how to approach him...
That night I asked him if he remembered doing something inappropriate for a married man such as texting an escort for an hour. He had no recollection. I guess I gave him an out by suggesting maybe someone hacked his phone. He kind of ran with that but was acting weird. I kept asking questions. He’s a very tech savvy guy. Since he wasn’t being much help I decided to launch my own investigation. I felt like I was going to burst if I didn’t talk about it or research it. I ended up talking to several people including some of his family members. Probably not the best idea but I was desperate for answers. I had read up on escorts and their lingo and how it all worked. He did let me do a text retrieval on his phone. The data was pretty garbled but there was definitely other stuff that seemed escort related...a few I remember are “are you doing in or out?” “I’m here. 312. Ok.” I made an appointment to see a therapist early on because I felt like I was going crazy. I ended up losing 20 pounds and my nerves were shot. Couldn’t sleep or eat. Crying most days.
Over the next several weeks I discovered he had made dating profiles and found a “sexy” picture on KIK. He still tried to act like his phone was hacked. I told him we needed a break. Too many lies. He went to his Dad’s for 5 days. During that time I hit the jackpot...but I didn’t feel like a winner. I had one of his old phones and discovered his Google search history. This was early March 2016 so I was going backwards reading it. Pretty normal until I got to January 2016 and saw where he was searching how to “hide phone activity/text messages” on the night I confronted him. Wow. So I went backwards from there and was able to see when it all started. We got in to a fight in early June 2015 and he left. 1 month after being married. He came back after 1.5 days. (Most of our fights were about his 2 kids from a previous relationship. I have 2 of my own as well. Turns out his son is autistic but wasn’t even diagnosed and put on meds until 2018 at 13 years old. We also fought because I felt very unimportant to him and pointed it out sometimes.) So from his search history a month after getting married it goes something like this...”annulment, blow job toy, where to get a massage, chat rooms, escort reviews” by mid-June even though I thought we’d worked things out. Other things I saw were “hotel locations/directions, can I get an STD from oral?”, etc.
So again, this is early March 2016-about 7ish weeks since the phone bill discovery. We had made plans to have a date night after him being gone for 5 days but I had just discovered the search history that morning. I wasn’t fully prepared but had some screen shots. It was kind of awkward just because I’m thinking who is this man? How do I approach him again with this new info after trying to “move on”? I decided to tell him I found his search history. He tried to deny it still. I said yes, that’s yours. It had other normal searches that I could point out that were definitely his. He finally decided to tell me what happened. Trickle truth I guess they call it. He said he searched for escorts and messaged some but he always chickened out because of the risks. He said he never had any luck with the dating sites. He swore he didn’t cheat on me. I still felt like I didn’t believe him. We tried couples counseling but they didn’t even want to talk about the escort issue. They wanted us to focus on the future. Umm...we need to discuss the past so we can figure out how we even got here!
Looking back he had never really treated me any different. Still affectionate and saying I love you daily. There was never any lack of activity in the bedroom so sex wasn’t an issue. I have all of our texts saved so I pulled those and compared them to his search history dates/times. I saw some nights he was “working late”. I narrowed it down to 4 days that I thought he visited escorts. He let me see his bank activity since we don’t share a bank account. On those 4 days there were ATM withdrawals ranging from $100-$200. Wow.
We decided we loved each other enough to try and move on even though I told him I would NEVER believe him. And that I expected it to NEVER happen again. We went through the whole hysterical bonding phase during most of this. I still felt wired all the time and continued to do research even though I said I wouldn’t. I was depressed and still wasn’t eating/sleeping right. I found out in late May 2016 that I was pregnant. We would argue if I asked questions about “the past” and he threatened to leave a few times while I was pregnant. We pushed through and welcomed a baby girl in January 2017. I tell you what. I needed her as much as she needed me. A true ray of sunshine in my life. We decided to take another big step and buy a house in July 2017. The past would still creep in and haunt me though...
In August 2017 I randomly Googled the escort’s name-the one from the phone bill in January 2016. Why do I torture myself like this? I had contact with her back in 2016 and she oddly gave me her real name. I saw her Facebook and everything. I had said I’d give her money for info. I quickly realized she was most likely on drugs and nothing really came of it because she couldn’t remember sh*t. Anyway when I googled her name her OBITUARY popped up. She had just died of an overdose the week before! Crazy. I ended up sharing it with my husband. My heart was upset for her 3 kids she left behind. Such an awkward feeling. He would always seem surprised if I brought stuff up days, weeks, months, years later. He doesn’t realize that I think about it almost daily. It became a part of our future because he didn’t tell the truth. Never really “set me free” I guess.
Fast forward to present days. (Thanks so much for reading so far!) I’ve tried to bring stuff up less and less...we’ve come to laugh about certain things. Like when we watch tv shows/movies why is there always an escort/prostitute?? We’ve settled in to a fairly normal and predictable routine day to day. Work. Kids. Home life. Recently we added some new stuff in to the mix. I’ll just say a recreational substance. Nothing hard core and safety measures were taken. Research has been done and some people use it for couples therapy. The after glow is real. Didn’t know that at first. Well it’s opened my husband up more than ever. I feel like I’m getting to know him all over again. He decided to tell me the truth after 4.5 years. It’s not pretty. But it could be worse I suppose...
So I guess after getting married and us fighting he was beginning to feel like “property” and feels like once people get married they start treating each other differently. He had not been with many girls before me. He was 34 when we got married. I was 36. I think he’s a very handsome guy. People always had crushes on him but he was shy and had anxiety so things never went very far. He had a small unsuccessful encounter as a teenager and then wasn’t with anyone until he was 23ish. That was the mother of his two kids. If you look at her and him together you would wonder how the heck it even happened. They had bonded over an online game for years before meeting in person. He was different back then and I think she kind of ruled the roost. She even scheduled their sex once a week! After they spilt he was briefly with a girl he met on Plenty of Fish and then had another brief relationship with a girl crush from his childhood. Then we met in April 2013 and have been together ever since. Sex life was always good. He seemed to know what he was doing. Haha. One thing I hated thinking about was that I gave my husband his first successful bj at 32 years old and thinking escorts probably did now, too. On to his reason for the escorts...
I was really surprised that it had less to do with me and was more about how he was feeling about himself. Yes, we fought and that made him “unhappy and annoyed.” HE said in a text to me that it was mostly “feeling myself get older and wasting what time I have left looking semi attractive. Hard to sum it up. Things are better and I guess I learned from it somehow and know it’s a waste and not a fulfilling avenue either.” He said he didn’t come clean because he didn’t want me telling people he really visited escorts. So I feel like he wants to protect his reputation because it’s something he said he’s not proud of and that he doesn’t like to think about. He has said it’s not my fault. I asked if he thought I was stupid. He said no. He said he was stupid. I asked if he felt bad and he said there were many guilt trips but with me being in a bad mood most days it made it easier. He said it was the thrill of the hunt. Finding a girl. I asked many many questions and he answered them all. He said it was a search for validation and wanting to feel wanted. Which makes me so sad for him. He was paying these girls for their attention. They have no idea what a true catch he is-looks, smarts, good heart, funny, adventurous. He said it was more of a rush if they said he was cute before the act. And yes, on to the acts...I’m having a HARD TIME accepting that between 4.5-5 years ago that my husband had contact/visited 12ish women. Much more than I expected. He insists he wore protection each time and was tested 2 times for STDs. So we’ve got 3 successful bjs, 1 successful hj, and 1 topless massage (his first visit). He said the girls never looked like the pictures and most were “ghetto yo girls”. One girl he felt bad for and said he changed his mind but left the money. One girl he thinks was a cop because she was asking too many questions. One girl he was supposed to actually screw didn’t look like he thought and he tried to leave and she told him someone would be waiting for him if he did. So he got robbed of that money. And there were 3 girls that he was unsuccessful with. Nerves I’m sure. He said he went after escorts because there was no emotional attachment. He still wanted to be married to me. He said he could do it and “forget about it”. He said if he met a real woman and not a “hooker” that it would have been over with us. He’s said sorry he hurt me and he really does love me.
So now that we have everything out in the open I feel so many emotions. I’m sad for him, sad for me, angry, hurt. We’ve both said we love each other and want to be the best US going forward. It’ll take more time. I’ve cried. He cried for the second time in 7.5 years of knowing him. I told him it’s a lot to accept even though I was 99% sure he cheated. I told him I’ll have some bad days still. It stops me in my tracks some days...like my husband was with other women. They touched him. They saw him. They talked to him. Ugh. If he had confessed sooner I can’t imagine where we’d be today. We might not have our sweet little girl and he could just be “somebody that I used to know.”
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2020.09.13 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 15 (2.UWT)

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13.sep 15 Lyon > Grand Colombier 175 km (109 mi) Mountain / Reverse km labels 12:25-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.12 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 14 (2.UWT)

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12.sep 14 Clermont-Ferrand > Lyon 197 km (122 mi) Absolutely Not Flat / Reverse km labels Flat 13:05-18:00 CEST
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2020.09.11 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 13 (2.UWT)

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11.sep 13 Châtel-Guyon > Puy Mary 191 km (119 mi) Medium / Reverse km labels 11:50-17:00 CEST
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2020.09.10 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 12 (2.UWT)

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10.sep 12 Chauvigny > Sarran 218 km (135 mi) Hilly / Reverse km labels Uphill 11:50-17:15 CEST
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2020.09.09 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 11 (2.UWT)

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09.sep 11 Châtelaillon-Plage > Poitiers 167 km (104 mi) Flat / Reverse km labels Flat 13:40-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.08 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 10 (2.UWT)

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08.sep 10 Île d'Oléron > Île de Ré 170 km (106 mi) Flat / Reverse km labels Flat 13:30-17:30 CEST
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2020.09.07 18:58 fkkedupagain What are you experiences of covert narcs? Was my ex one? I feel like nothing makes sense anymore.

So, me and my ex broke up in October last year. We stopped speaking end of Jan this year. I just found out what covert narcissism was.
We weren't even together that long. We met last year, and within 6 months of being "unique", "amazing", "beautiful" and saying he had never felt this way about someone before, that when we kissed he got butterflies, that he wanted to marry me... He is 32, and I am his second ever girlfriend. When he met me, he hadn't had sex in 5 years because he "didn't really care about it." He was so lovely and caring and kind. Really shy and respectful. When we did break up, he said it was because I was "putting doubts into his head" and that he had previously been "so sure" of me.
When we first started talking he had me on a pedestal. Mostly about looks, but also massively about empathy. He was almost obsessed with how empathetic I was - he would always say, I wish I was empathetic like you, you're so kind, I love that you're empathetic.
He also said I had "changed his world", that he was in love with my intellect, that I had changed deep rooted beliefs he'd always had, and made him more positive about humans!
In my previous relationships, dates had been 4, maybe 5 hours. With him, it was 12 hours, 18 hours, and very quickly developed in spending weekends together very quickly.
He opened up early on about his mental health problems, that he felt like an outsider and that basically everyone in his life had f***ed him over.
He remembered EVERYTHING I said. He found everything I said interesting. He always complimented me. He wanted his friends to know about me, he posted me across all his social medias. I felt happy that maybe someone actually liked me. We waited to have sex, and when we did have sex he was really respectful and caring. I genuinely believed he liked me.
I used to bake him cakes every weekend I saw him, and I used to always go to his races to support him. I took his photos for his instagram when he asked me to. I bought him books I thought he'd like. I tried to make him feel special all the time, and he did with me too.
He seemed to have a "clinger" ex. On our second date, he showed me messages she'd tried to send him asking him to talk to her. They'd been split eight years! He said she regretted cheating on him, but that he found her unattractive, grotesque all these things .... He said he had her blocked on everything and wouldn't be seen dead talking to an ex.
He plays in a competitive sport, and he trains obsessively for it. I took a four hour journey to see him running in one of his races. I also waited in the car for him to do his training (which could take up to 2 1/2 hours). I got a sense that he never stuck to the time he said he would do things. He was late to everything, and I was always waiting around, but I put it down to him being busy.
One day he rang me and said he thought he had a water infection because it hurt to pee. This was like a week after we first had sex. I was mortified, and transported back into that state of mind of being dirty and a victim. Even though I knew I didn't have an STI/STD I was devastated that he thought that was it? I was crying when he told me and I couldn't really speak. I explained why, and said I wanted to come and see him. But it was late, and there was no trains to his city, so I said I'd see him at the weekend and that I was sorry for being so emotional. He had been emotional and raw w/ me too, so I didn't think he'd care that I was vulnerable and open with him?
He then basically said that this was to make him feel guilty. He said I was putting doubts into his mind whether I was the one for him because I was being manipulative and that he felt he "should" have driven to see me when I was upset, and that wasn't fair? I tried to explain that I was literally just sad about that situation and I felt bad, but I didn't expect him to drop everything to come and see me, far from it. I wanted to reassure him that I wasn't "dirty" basically. He just kept saying he felt guilty and I made him feel bad.
This is the first ever time I see any negative side to him. Maybe 2 months into knowing him. It's like a switch went off. He made me feel so negative that I convinced myself I was ruining this.
A week later, I spent another weekend with him, and he had just changed completely. He picked me up from the train station and pulled away from me when I tried to hug him. I had travelled after work to see him (2 hours) and got there at 9pm, by the time we got to the restaurant (after he had taken me back to his work to spend an hour finding a document when I waited in the car) he pulled his phone out and started going on instagram. I said in a really joking tone "Okay, when you're on instagram I am not going to speak because I am special!". I bought us a coffee, and sat down next to him and put my head on his shoulder.
He kinda mellowed after that, but then brought it up when we were going to bed, saying "We're not as connected as usual" and "you keep making me feel guilty". He said he was looking at a "personally important" picture and I made him feel bad. I apologised saying I just have a pet hate about people going on their phones when someone else was talking. He brought up the water infection thing again. I apologised, because I thought I had been a brat. But he started crying and wouldn't hug me when we went to bed, so he fell asleep crying and I didn't know what to do.
The next day we go to one of his races, and to his family party. We were on the road from 7am until 1am when we got back to the airbnb we had booked. We had planned on going to smoke weed with his brother. But it was 1am, and genuinely I just didn't want to go. We'd just seen him at the party, and I honestly just wanted to cuddle with my boyfriend on our last night together before I went home. Because I had come down for the weekend, I thought he would cancel seeing him altogether because they see each other in the week. But he went and left me alone in this airbnb. At 230am, I text him asking him to come back because I wanted to see him before I went to bed (I guess that's not the best thing to do, but I did want to see him and had travelled down that weekend to see him!). He came back, he was happy. We had sex. Everything seemed to be back to normal. He was telling me I was beautiful again. I thought we were fine then.
The next day he had another race I had to go to, up at 8am and travelling for 2 hours. He finished his race at 4pm. I was waiting in the cafe on the site of this race from 10am to 4pm. I had no idea it would be this long. It was boiling and I had nothing to do, but I thought I was being selfish saying something so I just did it.
When he got back, he said he needed to go to a training session that night from 6pm to 8pm. He said I could decide whether to get the train home or wait again. I decided to wait, because I basically hadn't seen him all weekend, and I wanted to see him! He dropped me at another cafe at 6 and trained. At 830pm, I text him basically asking where he was. He said he was getting a picture for instagram. I admit I was pissed off at this point. I was waiting around again and he was just doing what he wanted. I told him I thought that was unfair when he said he would be back at 8.
He lost his shit and basically broke up with me, dropped me home and didn't speak to me for 3 days. Eventually he said he needed some "time to evaluate whether he wanted to be with me". He compared me to his sister (see above). He said I was manipulative and made him feel guilty all the time.
I was devastated and begged for a second chance, apologised every day.
He then said he wanted to meet up with me the following weekend. He literally acted like nothing had happened. He made a vague apology, said he overreacted. That we should forget about it. He drove me back to his (new) house and we stayed together that weekend.
He would constantly say that he hated "promiscuity" and showed me "cringey" photos of girls trying to be attractive on instagram. He made a big thing of it.
When I had gone home, I saw he had like a picture of a girl in her underwear. The hypocrisy was so weird. I mentioned it, and all hell broke lose. He ignored me for a week this time.
During this week, my family friend passed away. I lost my job. I had a miscarriage. A stressful time.
When he decided to speak to me, I felt more confused.
He said the "elephant in the room is that we aren't connected as we used to be". He kept saying that I was manipulative and a liar. Any time I tried to talk about the actual issue I had, it just descended into nothing. He never discussed the photo. I almost forgot what we were arguing about.
He said he wanted to do his race this week, and not think about this. He said "yeah yeah, I know you've been r***d." When I said that I am insecure about how I look, and I will work on my insecurities. He said he wanted to spend time with his friends, that he only contacted them when he needed something now. That he would talk to me after his race (A week after this conversation)
I gave him time to his race. I went to my friend's funeral. I miscarried and messaged him a long message saying I missed him, I wanted to go back to how it was, that I loved him and I wanted to be with him and I was sorry for everything. He read it and didn't reply.
When I met up with him after his race, I told him about the funeral and the miscarriage. It's like he couldn't hear? He just said "you didn't even wish me luck for my race". Well I would have, if I had known he wanted to hear from me? He'd ignored the whole message I'd sent him two days before.
This was all 2 days before my birthday. The same time my ex had broken up with me 2 years earlier. I had told him I hated birthdays, that they made me sad. He said after 3 hours "so yeah, I think we should break up, I thought I would feel differently when I saw you but I don't."
He then text me the next day asking for my address so he could post me my things.
On my birthday, he text saying "Happy birthday beautiful! I hope you have the most magical day xxx".
We ended up sleeping together twice up until January this year, and didn't stop speaking until I blocked him in March.
When I saw him those two times, he made out he was severely depressed. When he had finished with me, he told me that he'd lost his job because he stayed in bed for 3 weeks straight. He said his friends had sent a welfare call to his house. He said he contemplated suicide. He was acting like I broke up with him? He said he would never find someone who's on my level in attractiveness or intellect or connection we had. We continued to send each other essays everyday. He initiated sex each time I stayed at his.
I stopped all this in January, saying we were acting like a couple and it was confusing. He went mad. This is the first time I've ever heard him shout.
He kept saying, "Well my friends don't think I was overreacting about leaving you in that cafe when I went running actually" and "well, yeah we did sleep together but I didn't actually plan for you to stay?" When I told him I thought I was worth more to him than a fuck buddy, he blocked me on everything.
On Valentines day he unblocked me and asked for his key back...
I blocked him on that. I'm still blocked by him on other things like insta. Apart from a second account he has that he uses, but never contacts me, so I just left that.
And that's the long and short of it.
Is this normal? Am I just being a bitter ex or did I not warrant half the shit I had to deal with? Do people break up after 2 small disagreements? Do partners expect utter positivity at all times?
Was I wrong to mention the instagram, being on his phone or him being late to pick him up?
Does this sound like covert narcissism?
What is your experience with covert narcissism?
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2020.09.06 15:32 eggboykelso Birth Control that won't kill my sex drive??

(ignore my username, it's a That 70s Show reference lol)
I am a mid-20s woman who is on a fairly high dose of anti-depressants (lexapro). Since puberty I have had a very high libido, which I actually like about myself. The lexapro has diluted my sex drive down to what is probably a "normal" level, which I'm fine with because of how much my life has improved on my medication.
A couple of years ago, I started to take birth control pills, and the pills in combination with the lexapro completely killed my sex drive for the 8 months I was on the pill. This was to the point that I wasn't even in the mood to make-out with my boyfriend at the time, let alone masturbate or do anything sexual. I hated it. Like I said, I'm someone who genuinely enjoys having a high libido, and I didn't feel like myself the entire time. Since stopping the lexapro isn't an option for me, I stopped the birth control.
Fast forward a few years, I'm single and am planning to move abroad in about a year. I'm looking to have a casual relationship or two without forming attachments since I'm moving to a different continent (obviously keeping Covid and social distancing in mind). I want to get back on some sort of birth control (in addition to using condoms to prevent STDs), because I have long-term career aspirations and really don't want to get pregnant at this point in my life, especially from casual dating encounters (plus I really wouldn't mind reducing my 7-day period lol).
I've looked into various forms of birth control and talked to my doctor, who suggested trying out an IUD, but I'm a little nervous about it since it could still potentially kill my libido and I've had people in my life have very negative experiences from it. However, I'm still willing to try it if it's my best option.
Essentially I'm looking for advice about what kind of birth control to try in order to keep my sex drive and those little tidbits that doctors and medical sites don't necessarily tell you. I've always found that asking other people who take birth control and have periods is the best way of learning (in combination with professional medical advice of course).
P.S. I am in a country where getting access to any kind of birth control is not a problem.
P.P.S. I'm also on Vyvanse for ADHD type-inattentive.
TLDR: Looking for long-term birth control that won't completely kill my sex drive in combo with my anti-depressants (lexapro). Have tried birth control pills and they completely ruined my libido.
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2020.09.06 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 9 (2.UWT)

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06.sep 9 Pau > Laruns 154 km (96 mi) Mountain / Reverse km labels Sloping 12:15-16:30 CEST
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2020.09.05 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 8 (2.UWT)

Date Stage From > To Length Type Finish Time
05.sep 8 Cazères > Loudenvielle 140 km (87 mi) Mountain / Reverse km labels Downhill/Floppy Schlongy 13:30-17:15 CEST
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2020.09.04 10:00 PelotonMod [Race Thread] 2020 Tour de France - Stage 7 (2.UWT)

Date Stage From > To Length Type Finish Time
04.sep 7 Millau > Lavaur 168 km (104 mi) Flat Flat 13:25-17:30 CEST
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Overall Previews CyclingNews / INRNG / CyclingTips / CyclingWeekly / Road.cc
Stage Preview /peloton prediction thread / INRNG / Ciclismointernacional
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Streams Cycling.today / Tiz / Race Coverage starts at 13:25 CEST
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